Guys who take things slowly throw me off my game. Like, it’s really sweet that they want to take a ton of time to get to know me before even so much as kissing me, but I’m a Gemini venus / ENTP / Enneagram type 7w8 sx/sp so I move fast. I want instant chemistry, I want excitement, I want intensity, I want a rush, and I want to f*ck by like the 3rd date lol. Hurry tf up and catch up to me already!!
I hope the universe blesses you with a moment of peace this week. You’re doing the right thing, and you’re going to be okay.
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n. the ambiguous intensity of looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable—their pupils glittering, bottomless and opaque—as if you were peering through a hole in the door of a house, able to tell that there’s someone standing there, but unable to tell if you’re looking in or looking out.
But this